Showing posts with label Choose Joy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Choose Joy. Show all posts

Thursday, November 17, 2011

He goes before me.






 
Today is our last day of school, as we are taking a nice needed break during the Thanksgiving holiday.

As you know, I wasn't too sure how this whole homeschooling journey would be.
(I totally freaked!!)


Two months into our school year, I am happy to say that as usual, God had our best interest at heart, even though I couldn't see it at the time.

Today, I choose to see the Joy in what I do not see coming.

In all honesty, I didn't see this whole journey coming or working out, and have speculated it alot!

I tend to freak out in this flesh covered spirit of mine and worry-worry-worry.

I'm learning to trust Him.

I'm learning to allow my knowing to be bigger than my questions.

I know who my Father is,
 I just have to apply that to the worry,
 to the doubt,
 and right in the middle of the situation that may fill like a death trap.

He is here with me, and even better than that...

He goes before me.



Deuteronomy 31:8
The LORD is the one who is going ahead of you. He will be with you. He won't abandon you or leave you. So don't be afraid or terrified.



Homeschooling is going really well. 
We've had an occassional bump here and there, but nothing that we haven't been able to muddle through.

My little family is at peace, we have a new found Joy and we are becoming closer to eachother because of it.

If that is what God had in mind with this whole process,
it has been worth every second!

So, even though I don't always know what tomorrow will bring...
Today
I
Will
Choose
Joy!


Remember,
 where ever you are...

He has already gone before you!


Thursday, November 10, 2011

Choose Joy: I watch in hope!






What overwhelming JOY do I find in this scripture today!

Choose to see it within your own life!

Don't miss it...

watch in hope for the Lord!

Choose JOY!


Micah 7:7-8

But as for me, I watch in hope for the Lord,
I wait for God my Savior;
my God will hear me.

Do not gloat over me, my enemy!
Though I have fallen I will rise.
Though I sit in darkness,
the Lord will be my light.




Thursday, November 3, 2011

Choose Joy Every Day!








Its the first week of November and I can't help but want to shout out what I'm thankful for, or what it is that brings me Joy.

 Why is it that we seem to run to November with a thankful heart, when our hearts should be thankful all year round?

Maybe it's because another year has almost passed and we are thankful for what it brought into our lives, and that we survived it.

Can I get an Amen?!
Whew!

I do believe in celebrating the season with a heart full of thankfulness, but I believe that it can be celebrated each day.


I believe we get so caught up in the mondaine parts of life, that we forget to step back, and just breathe in our every day blessings.


This week I would like to find the Joy in five areas of my life, that I might not normally see any sort of Joy in.

It's about CHOOSING TO SEE THE JOY that we would normally pass by with a familiar shrug.


1. Laundry!

If you know me then you know that I love to clean.
Yes... I know I have a problem.
There is actually one part of cleaning that I despise, and that is laundry.
Every. Part. Of. It.
Shocking, I know.

Last week I was shopping and found this at the dollar store for only $5.00 a box!


These beautiful sheets of goodness have totally changed my laundry experience.
They are unbelievable.
They clean great.
They make my laundry smell like heaven
and the clothes come out of the dryer so soft, that I WANT to fold them!

And as an added bonus, I'm not allergic to them!
No itchy rash!
(FYI...if your just meeting me, I'm allergic to the planet.)

There are 24 sheets in the box.
If I play my cards right, that box of wonder-mous JOY will get me about two weeks of laundry.

Oh...and when the sheets come out the dryer, they still smell great!
My husband takes them and puts them under the seat of his truck to make it smell clean.
(I guess that means they are 4-in-1)


2. My dogs.

If you don't know by now, I have a love hate relationship with my dogs.

I hate them because...
a.  I am allergic to them.
b.  they like to lick and I no-lika-da-lickin'.
c. they have really gross bodily functions...eewww!
d. I am allergic to them.

I love them because...
a. they sleep next to me on the couch and warm my feet when they are cold.
b. they are cute and soft
c. my kids adore them
d. as much as I might not want to admit it, they are a big part of our family.

Something happened this morning that really made me LOVE them.
It was about 5:00 a.m. and my little male dog kept barking and barking.  When he barks, his momma begins to bark...it's like they bark in round or something.
It was a little too early for him to need to go outside, so I found it odd and tried to go back to sleep.
He wasn't taking no for an answer and kept on barking, which then turned into an obnoxious howl.
I got out of bed very frustrated and stormed into the living room to let him outside.
As soon as I opened the door, he ran behind the opened door on the porch and began barking.
I immediately thought,
"Oh no! A Raccoon!"
(I have a fear of raccoons...that's a whole other blog post.)

I grabbed the broom next to the dryer, because we all know that a broom is the perfect weapon to kill a raccoon, and slowly peeked to see what was behind the door.

It was my cat!!
My eight year old cat!!

He must have snuck out the door when my husband left for work, and my little dog knew somehow.
I can't even imagine what would have happened to him if my dog would not have known he was outside.
He's not cut out for the outdoor life.  He's quite a diva, that big fat Poppa cat.
I was amazed and so proud of my little dog.

He brought me Joy this morning!


3. Electricity

Seriously, this is one that we all take for granted.

This week, I definitely found the Joy in it.

My little guy suffers with seasonal allergies, go figure.
He caught a bit of the crud this past week and began having fever and a horrible cough.

We had to do breathing treatments for several nights every few hours, so that he could get some relief and stop coughing.

I would plug up his breathing treatment machine and lay next to him, holding it up to his face while he slept.

I remembered before we found out that he had allergies, and that he was also prone to catching the croupe, we would sit down on the floor of the bathroom with the shower on the hottest temperature we could get it, and stay there for hours.  I would hold him on my lap crying and coughing.  The midst helped open up his lungs and break up all of the mucus, but we were both miserable sitting there on the floor.
When he was diagnosed with all of the allergies, we got his nebulizer machine to use and it had the same effect as the misty bathroom.

It was wonderful!!
I could lay with him in his bed and we could both rest much better, or he can sit on the couch and watch a movie while doing his treatments.
That makes him much happier, and in return makes this momma VERY happy.
We can only do that because of the blessing of ELECTRICITY!

What JOY is in that!!


4. My daughter traveling.

This has been a big issue for me lately.
My daughter left home for college and she travels often on different mission trips.
So far, she has only traveled here in the states, but to a mom whose daughter barely left our state of Louisiana, it's a big step.

I get nervous every time she leaves on a trip and I stay nervous until she returns safely home.

This past week she traveled with her Master's Commission classmates to Alabama to work at a House of Horrors.
They show thousands of kids the darkside of the world and how our sin can be so detremental to our lives. It takes the mask off of the enemy and allows them to see who he really is and how much of their lives he is out to destroy.
They end the tour through the HOH with a powerful message of salvation.

She returned home a couple of days ago and was so excited to tell me that over
1200 people gave their lives to the Lord!!
1200!
I was blown away with that number!
That's an army of people!

I thought of how silly I have been worrying about her traveling.
Yes, I am a mother and maybe it's just part of the mothering process, but after hearing about her trip to Alabama and the powerful experiences she had there...I have a whole new outlook on her traveling.

I always knew that she would be a world traveler.
I knew she would be a world changer, and being able to hear what God is doing through her team, it totally confirms that for me.
It gives me a peace within.
I really do need to trust God more when it comes to her, I really do.

I CHOOSE TO SEE THE JOY in her traveling and being away from home.


5. 2nd, 3rd, and 4th chances!


My husband came home yesterday and he and the kids were circled around our overflowing candy bowl from our Fall celebration, talking about their day.

He opened a small pack of candy and walked over to me.

He gently grabbed my right arm, and placed a candied bracelet around my wrist.
He said, "I love you. I always have. Happy late anniversary."

I melted right there in the living room.

Be still my heart!

It reminded me of 2nd, 3rd and 4th chances.
It reminded me of where we were a few years ago...angry, hurt and living in two different homes.
We were separated, our family was split.

But what Joy is there in 2nd chances!!

What Joy is there when even though we give up on eachother's love...God doesn't.
He nudged as back to one another and knew how sweet our love for eachother could become.

And it has!
How sweet it is!
Oh, how I love that man of mine!
God proves His faithfulness to us over and over.
He gives us chance, after chance, after chance to be redeemed.

His Grace covers all.

No matter how often we need it, He is there covering and loving us, giving us a new start.
Each day we wake up is a new day and another chance!

I'm sitting here with a grin spread across my face thinking of the overwhelming love I have for my husband...

and CHOOSING TO SEE THE JOY in 2nd, 3rd, and 4th chances!


Choose to See The Joy in five areas of your life this week.

Write them down and post them on your refrigerator to remind you to SEE THE JOY every day!

Choose Joy Every Day!

Be blessed today!!


Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Choosing to see the Joy!






I've been trying my best to wean myself off of the internet a bit.

It seems as though, I can spend hours and hours at a time just looking, reading, and stalking.

Don't get me wrong, I love, love, LOVE the internet!!

It brings me such delight!

So much so, that I decided to write a poem about it titled:
 
 
Oh, How I Love the Internet...Let Me Count The Ways.

1.facebook
2. blogging
3. Pinterest
4. reading blogs
5. Yahoo news
6. Pinterest
7. Youtube music videos
and finally,
8. Pinterest!

You see?
I think I may have a bit of a problem here.

I began to realize that I was missing a whole lot of good things during those many hours on the internet.

Even though I think the internet is a great place, an excellent source of information, a great way to reach out to those you love, and a wonderful way to be ministered to and minister to others,
I was choosing the wrong Joy.

I learned a long time ago, the difference between "happiness" and "Joy".

Happiness is momentary.

Joy is everlasting!


We can either choose bits of happiness here and there, that only last for a little while, leaving an unfulfilled empty spot, or we can Choose Joy and let it last forever within our hearts.

The internet, and all it's wonder, just makes me happy.

There isn't anything wrong with feeling happy, but I needed to break away a bit and notice there was so much more I could be doing with the time I was spending on the internet.
I began to realize that there was so much Joy around me, that needed my attention more than the momentary happy feelings I was getting from the internet.

I needed to remove my hands from the keys, step back from my laptop, and wipe my cyber cloudy eyes.
(At least for a little while.)

I needed to open my eyes and really choose to see the Joy that was around me, within my arm's reach.

When I did that, I saw the things I had chosen to miss out on.

I realized,
that there was a whole lotta Joy!

So, I decided to write another poem titled:

Oh, How I Love My Life...Let Me Count The Joy!


* Being home with my kids everyday after four years of full time working and missing way too much of them.

* Watching their minds grow and stretch as we homeschool.

* Quiet mornings with just me and my Savior, welcoming the day with His Word and prayer, and not having to rush out the door carousing the children to school and myself to work.

* The one hundred "I Love Yous" I get to hear all day long from my little guy.

* The available time to clean out an overstuffed closet here and there.

* Not having extra money in the bank after paying bills, but never doing without what is needed to survive.

* Depending solely on my Father's works and not my own.


* Appreciating my warm, cozy little house more and more, as the weather turns cooler.


* Smelling my $1 Spiced Pumpkin candles burning all day.

 * Welcoming my husband home in the afternoon with a sweet kiss, a homecooked meal and a smile on my heart.

* Being deeply in love with him after 22 years together, in spite of the obstacles we have faced, and only because of God's unending Grace.

* Reading a book.
( I'm reading The Help by Kathryn Stockett at the moment.)

* Passing up the overflowing basket of dirty laundry to play kickball outside with the kids.


* Collecting pine cones with the kids to make some fall crafts.


* Noticing how the sun beams in through my kitchen window lighting up the fall flowers on my table.

* Listening to the birds sing praises to the new day.

* Verbal communication with a friend on the phone.

* Knowing without a shadow of a doubt that I am right where God wants me for now, and NOT having a clue of what He has in store for me tomorrow.

* Being able to live a redeemed life with conviction and praise because of the Cross, and not a life of condemnation and regret because of sin.

* Sitting on the couch watching Transformers: Dark of the Moon for the fifth time, in two days, with my little guy.

* Looking out my kitchen window, while washing a sink full of dirty dishes, and seeing the gorgeous green grass of our one acre of land, that will be completely paid off and all ours, in five short glorious months!

* Arguing with my teenage daughter to do her schoolwork, knowing that it will be worth it at the end of the school year.

* Hearing the swooshing of the trees, as the first real cold front of the year blows in, welcoming  the Fall season.

* Watching the kids run through the yard while our little dogs chase them.


* Making our first mug of cocoa, whip cream and chocolate sprinkles of the season.

* Baking goodies with the kids.


*Actually applying some of the great ideas I found on Pinterest to my home.


* Planting orange and yellow Mums all over the back yard.

* Having coffee with my sister early Sunday morning.


* Sitting with my little guy as he reads his book to me.


* Standing in the yard and visiting with my neighbor.

* Hugging my kids throughout the day.


* Garage saling at 6:15 on a cool Saturday morning, with my coffee mug in hand, and a dear friend by my side.

* You.

Psalm 4:7
You have given me greater joy than those who have abundant harvests of grain and new wine.

What Joy do you choose to see today?

Please share in the comments below!

Be blessed today!!

Choose Joy!




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